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Power, Wisdom, Love

In the process of creating my own personal mission statement (and by extension, that of this site) I realized that there are three prime forces that operate at the foundation of our very reality. Aligning one’s living strategy and approach with the foundation of reality does wonders for its effectiveness I figure, so today I’ll tell you what those are and what I know about how they work.

My thoughts on this are greatly influenced by Gnostic tradition. Gnostics had various cosmologies which were misinterpreted as literal creation stories, though the cosmologies were meant to say more about the people who designed them, their understanding of reality and their relation to it. That said, I suspect they all had at least a piece of the puzzle that is objective reality itself. All of these cosmologies started with a single Source, from which emanated original primal forces, known as Aeons. The interaction of these forces were thought to make up the very fabric of existence, and give rise to everything else.

My own cosmology is much more complex than I’ll be going into here, but for the purpose of my Mission Statement, the primal forces I recognized at the foundation of all things are Power, Wisdom, Love and Mind. (What I’ve written on Mind is not as relevant for this article I’ve decided, so it will be expanded on and moved to a future post.) These four Prime Movers, as I understand them, are not dualistic; they have no opposites. They are fields of energy that permeate all things, and while we can be more or less attuned and aligned with their influence, even plug into them directly; all things exist in relation to them, and all virtues are various combinations and quantities of these. Recognizing and aligning with them gave me an extremely solid baseline by which to measure all other energies, entities, information, people, situations, desires and all other influences that make up my experience. So without further ado: here’s my statement of purpose, which I’ll then break down into its parts.

I intend and choose to keep growing, learning, experiencing and expanding in power, wisdom, love and service in the way that is most fun and enjoyable for myself.

Power: All Things in Motion

“Power” is a bad word for many people, especially spiritual people. We’re told not to seek power, because, as the saying goes, “power corrupts, and absolute power corrupts absolutely.” I’m also reminded of the opening monologue in one of the Lord of the Rings movies, where the voiceover is talking about how Sauron’s rings were given to Elves, Dwarves and “Men… who above all things (music gets ominous; voice drops to a tone of obvious disapproval) desire power.” Strictly speaking, Galadriel’s got a point there – desiring to accumulate power above all things leads us into problems, and the only place it can take us is to a rocky end. The reason for this is not that the use of power is, in itself, bad – but rather, seeing it as something to accumulate and hold over others is a misuse of the way that the very laws of the universe operate. If “might makes right” is your game, then you’ll eventually have to come to terms with the fact that you’re up against an entire universe which is, in fact, a lot bigger than you. ;) The transformation of both Bilbo and Frodo into almost possessed, demonic versions of their former good-natured selves, is a pretty good picture of what Power can do without the balancing effect of the other two virtues. The condition of Gollum; obsessed, addicted, and completely divided against himself, possibly the most disempowered character in the storyline who ultimately chased power to his own death, shows what can happen when we desire power “above all things.”

Power, as a virtue, is not something to accumulate or hoard; in purest form it is a force that we exist in relation to. Everything in the universe is constantly moving, flowing and changing; forces are always acting on other forces. When we learn how to harness some of those forces and flow with the changes, starting with the forces operating from within ourselves, we have power. When we resist the natural flow (and likely get pretty bruised and battered in the process), when forces outside ourselves take control of our internal forces, we are disempowered. As a Spirit having a human experience, you are, by definition, a tremendous natural source of power and energy. In most cases though, our power is scattered in all directions, and being dumped into black holes that don’t serve us, rather than being put to its best use. It is also worth noting that most of what we think of as “power” is actually status – or the illusion of such – based on success within “The System” as it stands. This condition is, however, dependent on the system remaining as it is – which no system ever does — and as such is fleeting. True power, or rather, plugging into and harnessing the universal source of Power, is adaptable and not dependent on external conditions. For the truly powerful, the appearance of status and the ability to influence are not something to be sought for their own sake. Status is simply a useful tool for gaining greater visibility, and thus being able to speak your truth to a wider audience. Influence is one of the tools useful for navigating your own ship within the context of all the other forces it is subject to. Universal Power doesn’t make anybody inherently “special” because we’re all harnessing the same source, and are part of that source. Although harnessing it in your own unique, creative way, and getting more proficient at doing so, can have a way of putting you in awe of your own special place and purpose within All That Is. :)

Wisdom: All Is Information

Information is everywhere; much like the other two virtues, we’re swimming in a field of the stuff. I would define the virtue of Wisdom as an ability to tap into this information, process it into something you understand, putting it to use, and continually improving on your ability to do all three. For those who have seen the Matrix trilogy, it may help to think of Neo suddenly gaining the ability to view the code behind the Matrix itself in raw form. Everything in our reality is made up of information; Wisdom comes with being able to not only process information, but put it to creative use as well.

Most people are not efficient processers and users of information. This is not usually something inherent in the person, but rather, because they’re misusing their tools: namely, the conscious and subconscious minds. Expanding on this theme will be the subject of future articles. Suffice to say that most people use their conscious mind to do all the gathering, processing, analyzing and application… while the subconscious mind, a living creator with the abilities of a supercomputer that never sleeps, and is intricately networked with All That Is, goes mostly unused and unnoticed.

Wisdom Relates to Power in that along with tapping into the force of motion, tapping into the flow of information is also a source of Power; or as the saying goes “knowledge is power.” Those who are able to advance in the fields of business and politics are adept at combining wisdom with power; information with influence. The problem is that in many cases, they leave it at that – and as a result, it’s framed as “every man for himself”; every man an island, in a fierce, cutthroat competition with everyone else to hoard information and resources for the greatest personal gain, typically in terms of money and influence over others. What they leave out of the equation is the third virtue, which has a balancing and uplifting effect on the others.

Love: All Things Are Relational

I covered the subject of Love in depth in a previous article, so I’ll keep this part short and mostly leave it at “go read that one.” :P In the interest of covering ground that I haven’t already, I’ll say that as a virtue, Love keeps us ever-conscious of the fact that everything in the universe exists, moves, operates and maintains its being in relation to everything else. At a certain quantum level it has been said that “there are no objects, only relationships” – every Thing that exists, is defined in relation to Other Things.

When the self begins to realize the interconnected and interdependent nature of all things, it brings us to the awareness that the way to gain is not by taking away from other selves, but through cooperation within the forces in which we all exist, and with other selves who support our ambitions. Two selves in conflict will never accomplish as much as two selves sharing resources and pushing each other to ever greater heights of individual and collective achievement (which even leaves a place for friendly competition!). On a broader scale, when humanity learns how to share and pool resources and innovation rather than warring over them and restricting their use with legal code like dogs fighting over scraps, we will transcend the limit of our self-imposed doctrine of Mutually Assured Destruction, and enter into a paradigm of Mutually Assured Creation without limits. This is not some fluffy, hippie-dippy New Age sentiment, but rather a practical and objective observation of the very nature of the reality in which we find ourselves. By plugging in and orienting yourself toward the universal source of Love, especially with the forward-moving and informing influence of the other two virtues, you can get a taste of that reality right now.

Fun: Increasing What’s Enjoyable

While possibly more a personal value than a universal principle, I would argue that all things and people have a vested interest in either being enjoyed, or getting as much enjoyment as possible out of their experiences. While it’s not realistic or even desirable to have every minute filled with all sorts of fun and bliss, that’s not my aim here. What I have found is that by making “fun” part of my mission statement, it orients me in such a way that if there’s a way to make something more enjoyable for myself, I’m more likely to find it. Not only does holding this intention help me to make unavoidable tasks easier on myself; it also raises the chances of steering myself away from situations I’d rather not be in, and toward more of those that I would prefer. It also has a way of putting things in perspective such that I don’t take myself, or most other things, more seriously than they actually warrant. Aside of weaker areas I’m still working on, this has done wonders for my stress level, and even allowed me to design the “playing field” some of my own life lessons.

Paradoxically, I take fun very seriously, since realizing how important and beneficial it truly is. All too often fun and responsibility are seen as being at odds with each other – we do the “responsible adult” thing (which usually means “hand over control of our time and energy for someone else’s personal profit”) during the week, and have our fun on the weekends. Most peoples entire lives are structured this way: trudge through your “responsibilities” now, have fun later… maybe.

As with most things: I reject your reality, and substitute my own. ;)

I challenge myself and stretch my creativity by trying to bring as much fun and enjoyment as I can, into as many areas of my life as possible. This does not necessarily mean that I try to make things “easier” on myself; I do that as well in many cases, but that’s a separate concept. I enjoy struggle for the sake of a good challenge (and then there are times when I’d prefer to relax and be on autopilot)… but the important distinction I came to recognize is that we have a tremendous degree of choice in the matter of whether we make progress through painful struggle, or fun struggle (or, as some people prefer, dispensing with struggle entirely and simply “going with the flow”). Why should work have to be difficult or tedious, and fun reserved for playtime? Why not find ways to play for profit and work for fun? Whose life are we supposed to be living here, anyway?

Far from decreasing my productivity or turning me into someone who veges out and floats through life without accomplishing anything meaningful; when I’m enjoying myself, I learn better, have more motivation to keep challenging myself, produce more, and the product of my efforts radiates the energy of my enjoyment. That should probably go without saying, though a brief glance at the corporate world betrays the fact that most people would probably need to be grabbed by the ears and shaken vigorously for this concept to sink in. This, in turn, allows me to produce a greater amount of value for others, which segues nicely into…

Service: Broadening Your Perspective

As I said in a previous post, I have recognized great value in orienting all my systems toward the concept of service. In contrast to the way “service to others” is usually portrayed though, like most things, I spin it in my own way. While it pleases me very much to have others gain value from anything I’m able to offer, my direct focus is not on “serving all people at all times, indiscriminately.” I’m a big fan of the philosophy encapsulated by the airline safety rule “secure your own air mask first, and then help the person next to you.” My concept of service starts with myself, and works its way outward, first to my immediate family, then to what I call “extended family,” which includes some friends and others I have strong previous-incarnational ties with, and then to everyone else who can be served by what I’m able to offer. Simply put: service starts in my own house. I’m not saying there aren’t times when putting others before myself isn’t advisable, there definitely are. But as someone who has lived with my focus on “others first” for quite a few years, I find my current approach to be a much more sustainable and fulfilling use of my resources.

I proceed in this way because I find that it puts me in the strongest position to focus my energy and provide the greatest amount of service. When I’m careful to take care of myself, I’m more likely to be physically and mentally healthy and content, which makes me more productive. I serve my family next, not out of obligation to the concept of “family,” but because 1. I value the people that I call family, and 2. this small group provides me with a strong, mutual support network, from which everyone in it draws a degree of security and a boost to each individual’s ability to serve how they will. I realize that not everyone’s biological family members fit this definition, but I would recommend to anybody that you find a way to cultivate this sense of “home and family” in whatever way you can make it happen, no matter how far “outside the box,” before trying to be of service on a wider scale.

While I’ve said before that I reject the idea of “service to self vs. service to others” as a false dichotomy, I do make a distinction between service and gratification, or even personal security. I enjoy those things, same as anybody, but holding them as something to seek for their own sake is a dead end. Orienting your systems toward gratification and security, programs you to take in energy and focus it only on the self without putting any back out again. The universe likes to keep things flowing and doesn’t respond well to hoarders – so you end up trying to secure your foundation on this hoarded energy that’s being broken down by the universe trying to take it back out again. Orient all systems toward service of the self and others, as someone who takes in what they need in order to find new, better and more enjoyable ways to use it as well as hand it back out again, and you’ll find that personal gratification and security take care of themselves in abundance.

While I encourage everybody to create their own individual statement of purpose, I suspect that the strongest ones will be aligned with these elements in some form. When I began working with them myself, I also suggested them to my brother, who is very new to self-development and metaphysics. For privacy’s sake I won’t say much about his personal struggles at the time, though I will say he had tried a lot of things to overcome them already. Within about a week’s time after specifically focusing on Power, Wisdom and Love, he came back to excitedly report some pretty drastic, positive changes. So, try it, see what you come up with and share your results with us! :)

In my next post I’ll take a look at the three primal addictions the ego is conditioned with from birth, that obscure, distort and block us from aligning ourselves with Power, Wisdom and Love.

–Palehorse
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What's Your Mission Statement?

Consider and compare two different corporations.

The first consists of a bunch of people strictly sealed in cubicles. Each person knows there are probably other people working for the company, but they never have any contact with those people. They only receive their individual assignments each day from “the boss,” who they’ve never met, but they don’t even know what the company is trying to achieve. The company exists and operates at the random whim of a boss that simply decides who does what and when, and that’s how it is.

The second corporation consists of departments, but the people within those departments are free to interact as they please, and each individual’s role in the company is defined solely by their own strengths and interests. The company has a specific mission statement that all employees are not only aware of, but believe in strongly and are excited to be part of. Within the goals of the mission statement, the only orders from the boss are for each employee to help make it happen in whatever way they’re best suited to.

So riddle me this: which setup is more well suited to the business of creation?

Both of these corporations represent ways of being. The boss is your conscious mind; everyone working for the corporation are the various aspects of yourself; your energetic and subconscious systems that work together to create your experience. Most people are in the position of the first example — the conscious mind doesn’t know what most of the parts are well suited for, if it even knows they exist, the parts are assigned functions they aren’t necessarily designed for, and none of them are working together in harmony.

The corporation in the second example, and the hypothetical Self it represents, is a powerful, harmonious, well oiled machine. Simply put: having all your systems pulling in the same direction, gives you a whole lot of pull. With all parts of yourself clear, functioning in the way they do best, and focused on a single unified purpose that you’re passionate about, you’re a force to be reckoned with indeed! All companies and organizations have a short, concise Statement of Purpose for this reason — and so should you.

How to Form a Mission Statement

When I started thinking about what my personal mission statement should be, I realized that I needed to find something that is enduring, as well as integral to who I am. I already know that operating against the natural flow of the universe is a good way to get squished flat (and it makes no exceptions for ignorance of how it operates), so I had to account for that as well. I strongly believe I have identified three of the most basic, primary forces operating in the universe itself, as well as every human being – three things we’re all looking for, and subject to, yet have distorted and mistaken for pretty much everything else that are NOT those things. Until then, I’ll leave you with a few questions to chew on that you will need to ask yourself when forming any mission statement.

What do you want? No, not what others say you should want – what do you really want?

What are your values?

What pursuits do you pour the majority of your time and energy into? Are they what you would choose to pour them into if you felt you had that choice?

What are your fondest hopes and dreams?

What excites you?

And the most important question of all…

Who are you?

I think that should be enough to keep most people busy for a while, so I’m off to work on the follow-up post!

–Palehorse
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TV Begone!


It amuses me how emotive the subject of television watching actually is. I’ve been met with reactions from mild bemusement to jaw-dropping shock in response to the fact I do not own a television. “What do you DO???” exclaimed a friend’s mother, “Aren’t you bored?”. One woman even made an excuse to pop round to our house to see for herself!

I’m not militant about my status as a television non-owner; I don’t think tv is inherently evil or that I’m “better than YOU!” I’m writing this blog to share my experiences, thoughts and the benefits I perceive to being free of this ubiquitous device.

I removed the television from our house in January of 2008. My primary motivation was that here in the UK, we have to pay a yearly license fee of £142.50, or risk a hefty fine. I don’t agree with the cost or the requirement of a licence to watch TV, as I believe it to be a tax on television ownership and the thin end of a very big wedge. Along with my satellite subscription, TV was costing me over £40 a month! That’s a big chunk of money for something I barely had time for.

Finances aside, these are my gripes with television:

The cultural impact of television advertising: I don’t like subliminal advertising, or advertising that outright demands that I live a certain way. TV adverts do exactly this, bombarding us with popular lifestyle choices for music, clothing and attitude. Of course adverts are designed to cater to the most profitable demographic; they are driven by revenue.

A by-product of targetting the mainstream is that viewers don’t realise there are alternatives, and so they buy into what advertising tells them without a second thought. They do not question what is presented onscreen. Consequently, there are hordes of people who don’t express themselves, and instead like what they are told to like, believe what they are told to believe and wear what the fashionistas tell them to. They find safety in numbers; non-conformity is seen as something freakish to be mocked, rather than an interesting diversity.

Women (and some men!) make themselves ill trying to emulate the style and looks of bulimic actresses and impossibly-sculpted actors. Adverts hint that we are somehow worthless if we do not conform to their ideals of youth and beauty. One anti-cellulite cream featured the thighs of a twelve year old boy, and shampoo adverts regularly use models with hair extensions.

Television advertising has played a large part in creating a generation where few can think for themselves. *Disclaimer* -not everyone who watches tv is a drooling vegetable.. like with anything else, an awareness of it’s effects and a degree of moderation work wonders.

It’s called television programming for a reason, kids ;)

Television’s use as a “soundtrack for life”: Too many families turn the television on as soon as they wake up, and do not switch it off until the last person reluctantly goes to bed. That’s around sixteen hours of noisy mental bombardment. I do wonder if these people are so afraid of having an original thought that they drown them out in this way.

As an empath it is anathema to me not to have some quiet time each day; to read, to lay and think, or simply to enjoy the silence. The loss of television had a profound effect on my two young daughters; if the “box” was on, I had to fight to gain their attention.. without it’s influence their attention spans increased and they began to engage in creative, imaginative play.

Walks to school became nature trails as they took more and more notice of the world around them, asking questions about creatures we saw; snails, slugs, birds, ladybugs and even the dreaded spider.

The News: Political news is mostly speculation, and by definition mostly imaginary. I find little truth or value in current affairs because of it’s skewed facade.

If news programmes aren’t the easiest way of manipulating the public, then I’m at a loss as to what is! With their doom, gloom and often outright hatred of those on the fringe of society they draw our focus to everything we don’t want in our lives. Plenty of people have an aversion to those who draw welfare benefits. “Cheats!” “Scum!” “Parasites!”.. again copying sentiments they hear on the news. The key word is aversion, aka negative manifestation.

By focusing on something, or on a group of people, by blaming it/them, you bring it into your experience. Public opinion, and thusly experience, is directly related to news stories. The horrific death of a child at the hands of an abuser makes headlines; and for months after our industrious journalists bring us more and more harrowing stories.

The power of the media is truly frightening. (that’s another potential blog!)

One can cut out these downsides and still enjoy some quality entertainment! “Then why throw away your TV?” I hear you ask, “Why not watch what you enjoy and turn it off?”.

Well, I didn’t find the few programmes we enjoyed worth the monthly expense. Along with that.. if you have young children you will be aware of their capacity to nag.”Muuuuuuuuuum, I want to watch Peppa Pig!” would soon become “..and I want to watch this, and that, and that….”. Children aren’t great at moderation and I’m a lousy disciplinarian. Removing the tv was the best choice for us as a family.

Within a week of getting rid of our tv, I had increased energy and clarity of thought. My creativity increased and I felt happier. I worried less about the future, which I believe was down to being news-free. I felt less irritable and stressed and more laid back about life in general. Visitors often commented on the pleasant atmosphere in our house, and that it was lovely to be able to chat unhindered.

When I see television in use outside of the home, I am very aware of it’s presence. I am irritated when I see it used in waiting rooms, shops and even the post office! In these situations it is spouting inane streams of “info-mercial” crap which only seems to put the patients and customers into a benign and glassy-eyed trance.

We still enjoy watching DVDs and streaming videos on the computer; the children appreciate selecting their viewing and see it as just one more form of entertainment rather than a necessary component of existance.

It’s a big leap of faith to make; television is deeply ingrained in our collective psyche and culture. A compromise I’d suggest is buying a cabinet to house your tv. Choose to watch, rather than have it on in the background. To use television consciously is to snap out of it’s control.

–Gehenna

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Cultivating Intuition and Discernment

Discernment and intuition are two of the most useful traits we can possess. The two are easily confused, but understanding what they both are, and how to cultivate them deliberately, is crucial for any seeker of truth and self realization. For that matter, it’s crucial for anyone who wants to be a good judge of character in others, and who wants a healthy navigation system for sailing the sea of information we’re bombarded with on a daily basis.

When you begin (or find yourself suddenly plonked onto) a spiritual path, you will encounter a wide range of ideas, and it would probably be fair to say that 1. the vast majority of them are sketchy at best and toxic at worst, and 2. most of it will be presenting itself as “The Truth.” It is also common for spiritual seekers to gain sensitivity, either through deliberate practice or spontaneous opening of latent abilities, which opens them up to contact from various nonphysical energies, influences and entities. As I’ve discussed previously, not all of these entities are going to have your best interest in mind. Much like people, nonphysical entities are a pretty diverse bunch, running the spectrum from dangerous adversaries to valuable allies, to those who mean no real harm but can still divert your path with their craving for attention. Entities with shady intentions posing as divine figures is also one of the oldest tricks in the book. So how do we tell the difference between a true spiritual ally, and the hissing lizard-creature in the Virgin Mary mask that may not be who it says it is? Let’s get acquainted with the two friends who will let ya know, once you know how to work with them.

What is Discernment?

Discernment is the process by which we evaluate incoming information and either accept it as it is and incorporate it into our personal “operating system,” revise it, or reject it. This is mostly a mental sorting process, which measures new information against what we already hold, and uses the support of our emotional center to let us know what “feels right” vs. not. Using our discernment causes us to ask: is this information logically consistent? Does it fit with what I already know to be true? The trick with that second question though, is not to confuse “knowns” with “beliefs.” A belief can and should be challenged, and changed, in the face of new information — a known is what is left after all beliefs are stripped away.

In an ideal world, the disciplines of logic and critical thinking would be taught in schools as a basic skill… but unfortunately, in this world, that would conflict with the purpose that schools were designed for to begin with. ;) Nonetheless, doing some study on subjects like logic, and recognizing logical fallacies, can be very helpful here. I did once take a college course on it which, while mind numbingly tedious at times (those times being the sections that involved proofs in the form of math equations *groan*) it was one of the most valuable classes I ever took, and I’d highly recommend it if you’re currently at a school that offers it. If not, Google and/or your local library are your friends. ;)

At this point I should say that I realize there’s a tendency in many spiritual circles to react against the over-reliance on logic in other fields, and shy away from it entirely. I would also be the first to tell you that not all spiritual experiences are logical. Where logic does (or should) come into play, is evaluating the information we gain from our most abstract, wild experiences; our interpretations of those experiences, and where we choose to go from there. While there are no absolutes, information and interpretations that are logically consistent are generally more likely to be closer to the truth than that which is full of holes and contradictions. This gives us a framework for keeping ourselves grounded, even while having experiences that will “blow your mind, man.”

The usual approach to cultivating discernment is through hard life experience; sheer trial and error. You have some good experiences, and you get knocked around enough times, so you start getting some idea of how to increase the former and decrease the latter. The problem is that most people have no real system by which to process and organize the information that makes up their worldview, and don’t bother to consciously evaluate what’s already there, much less what new information is permitted to come onboard. This leaves us with a worldview that is scattered, disorganized, full of contradictions and epic leaps in logic. It is most often founded upon the ideas that were socialized into us from parents, religion and society about what is “good” and “bad.” Even those who have begun questioning their programming are left with the dilemma of what standard to measure the programming against. With a mind full of conflicting ideas, trying to find its way in a world to match, how do we begin to chart our own course? I’ll tell you how I did it, but first I’d like to talk about the faithful companion of discerment: intuition.

What is Intuition?

Intuition is in a sense, the opposite yet complimentary process. There’s no sorting or even much thinking involved here; our intuition provides an immediate sense of “knowing” about the truth of a given situation or piece of info; it immediately gives us a sense of What Is. This process takes place mostly in the emotional processing center of the navel chakra; the source of “gut feelings.” Intuition uses the support of the conscious mind in that we have to be aware enough of what our feelings are telling us, to act on them.

After finding themselves in a range of sticky, screwed up situations, many people claim that they either don’t have intuition, or that theirs is “broken.” I’m here to save you a lot of trouble by telling you that your intuition is always functioning perfectly, exactly as it should. “But Horse!” you might say, after (hopefully) setting aside the urge to pop me one, “how can you say this, if I keep ending up in situations that aren’t good for me?”

I say this because your intuition, as the more unconscious part of your navigation system, is always guiding you exactly where it’s told to. Intuition simply tells you What Is — but it’s your personal collection of information, programming and old buried emotional material that you’ve got stored in your subconscious mind and energy centers, that determine how you respond to its signals, or whether you even recognize them at all. Refer back to what I said above about holding a scattered, disorganized worldview, and the picture becomes more clear. Whatever direction your entire mental, energetic, emotional and subconscious systems are most oriented in, is what your intuition will guide you toward. More likely, if your system is full of all sorts of mutually contradictory programming, intuition will seem harder to spot… not because it isn’t there, but because it’s leading you erratically in all directions, and you have to figure out and calibrate which of those directions you actually prefer in order to hone your relationship with your own senses. If, to use a common example, you were raised with a version of Christianity that taught you that you’re a sinful being who deserves to suffer, your intuition says “right boss!” (quite possibly in the Bronx accent I’m hearing in my head), iceberg suffering, dead ahead!”

Most people are stronger in either intuition or discernment, and sometimes there’s a tendency to downplay the weaker area. Women are often said to be better with intuition, while men are assumed to be more proficient in logic. In reality there is nothing inherent in either gender that makes them automatically better in either area; this has more to do with the fact that logic is a more mental process, intuition is more emotional, and our cultural conditioning categorizes men and women into the two separately. I started out much more logical than intuitive, but once I got rid of everything that was interfering with my intuition, and figured out how to use it, it began to feel just as natural. Among people who are better at logical discernment, intuition is often thought to be too “warm and fuzzy,” and among the intuitively gifted, logic is viewed as “cold.” It’s natural to gravitate toward what we’re already good at, but the best use of these two skills are as a complimentary, balanced whole. After all, information can be logically valid, while not being beneficial to incorporate in our daily lives, and conversely, something might feel right, but on closer inspection, not lead us in a direction we would want to go. Logic gives intuition a framework within which to focus itself; intuition provides our logic with a sense of direction.

In order to discern or intuit the nature of any person, entity, information or situation, you first have to be intimately familiar with YOUR nature. Who are you? What are your values? By what set of standards do you measure what’s good for you vs. what isn’t? You’re already doing this, probably largely unconsciously, but you’re doing so with a set of standards that you’ve been programmed with over the course of your lifetime, rather than ones you’ve chosen deliberately. When you have a clear sense of self, things that conflict with it will naturally begin to feel very dissonant, and things that synch up with your internal compass will feel comfortable and “right.” So how do we change our programming and begin choosing values that are truly our own?

Meet the Bouncer

There is a part of the subconscious mind I call The Bouncer, because it fulfills a function similar to a person with that job – it’s the part of you that operates at the border between the conscious and subconscious, and decides which information passes the threshold. The information that gets through becomes your personal programming, and holds a degree of influence over your experience and worldview from that point forward. Additionally, in contradiction with most of the “law of attraction” material I’ve ever read, I’ve found that simply changing a belief on the surface; deciding not to believe it anymore; doesn’t necessarily alter the influence it’s having over your life. When a piece of information gets past the bouncer, you’ve basically installed it as mental software. If you’ve reinforced it in various ways over time, it will be buried deep. Changing your conscious beliefs and actions is a bit like deleting a shortcut from your computer’s desktop – but if you want the program fully gone, you still have to uninstall it. Changing beliefs on the surface will condition the subconscious mind eventually, in an indirect way, but there are ways that are much more efficient.

Fortunately, working with your bouncer doesn’t require any fancy hypnosis techniques or deep trance that most people typically associate with subconscious work (although reading up on self hypnosis and familiarizing yourself with the methodology wouldn’t hurt). He operates close to the surface, but can “run errands” at deeper levels if you ask him to, so working with him doesn’t require much more effort than getting relaxed, addressing him directly and telling him what you want to achieve. I’ve even named mine and developed a specific way that I address him, which means that at this point he’s only taking information from me and sources that are aligned with my values, rather than absorbing it willy-nilly. If you realize that a belief or piece of information you’ve been hanging onto is limiting or unhealthy, simply ask your bouncer to remove it and all its influence from your system at all levels, and if you wish, replace it with something else. More information about changing your beliefs at the subconscious level can be found in my post, Beliefs Create Experiences. The recent guest post Coralie’s Manifestation Manual also has a great section on sorting through your belief system.

I assume most of my readers probably know themselves at least well enough that they can get a good start on sifting through their internal archives. However, if we take into account that the packages of information offered by all religions, politicians, societal institutions and especially modern advertising and media, are deliberately designed to bypass your bouncer and head straight for the depths of your subconscious mind, it starts to become more obvious that we need to give our bouncer some “rules of engagement” by which to accept or reject the constant flow of information. After peeling away so much of my own programming like layers of an onion, and realizing that there would probably be no end to the process in this lifetime if I didn’t find a way to blow through more programming in a shorter period, I began to recognize the importance of giving my bouncer a specific, concise Mission Statement to operate with. I’ll pick it up there in my next post.

–Palehorse
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